This
week’s blog entry is delayed somewhat, first due to writer’s block and then due
to a funeral in North Carolina for my aunt, who was also my dad’s twin
sister. Now not only is my father gone (2004), but
also both of his brothers and both of his sisters, which brings that generation
of my father’s side of the family to a close.
My mother, one of nine children, still has a few siblings left alive
(including herself) but no one is getting any younger. Neither am I…
I
have already addressed the issue of funerals, so I’ll keep that element as
brief as possible. Moreover, my
experiences in NC are likewise limited, which will make this blog fairly brief
as a whole.
I
have a law school classmate doing fairly well in Greensboro (“John B”), who
have I yet to visit since he moved down there.
If the invitation is still open, I’d be happy to see how he’s
doing. I have an elementary school
classmate (“Michael B”) who is now a professor at Appalachian State University
in Boone, NC, but I don’t have much contact with him – just oblique messages on
political topics on Facebook – much less any invitation to visit. Moreover, Boone looks like it’s fairly
remote, so it’s not even on the way to anything else.
Ages
ago, when my other law school classmate, John G, was still living at home and
hadn’t yet met his wife, I visited him in Virginia Beach. We took a day trip down to Nag’s Head on the Outer Banks. We even stopped by Food Lion for sandwiches,
which the store identified as “miscellaneous retail items”. You can really sink your teeth into
those. I have relatives who visit the Outer
Banks every summer, but I’ve yet to join them.
The Outer Banks look like much of the East Coast beach scene, like Ocean
City, MD; Virginia Beach, VA; Coney Island, NY; Jones Beach, NY; Sandy Hook,
NJ; Atlantic City, NJ. Outer Banks, though, doesn’t seem to have a
boardwalk. Too bad.
Raleigh-Durham. My uncle – the recently-deceased but much
beloved aunt’s husband – died last year, which gave me my first taste of this
area, which is about 4 hours south of the DC area. I didn’t visit any downtown area, but I did
stop by Duke University on the way out and picked up a pint glass from the bookstore. The weather then was fantastic, and I was in
no particular hurry to leave.
I
didn’t notice the area looking much different than Virginia, except maybe more
trees and much taller. But that looks
is shared with Virginia southwest of Petersburg, along I-85.
NASCAR. I associate North Carolina with NASCAR, which
is why I call it the way I do. I don’t
watch much auto racing, period, and almost none of NASCAR. In the short time I’ve been in NC, I had no
occasion to run into Don Garlits, John Force, Don Prudhomme, Helio Castroneves,
Emerson Fittipaldi, Ayrton Senna, or other such NASCAR (!) heroes. Nor did I see anyone driving like that on the
street. Looks like I missed out on
NC.
If
I have occasion to return, I’ll be happy to.
Until then…
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